记得一位朋友这样说过:自信是别人给的。说者有心,听者无意,后来看到一篇文章,才若有所悟:一个小男孩几乎认为自己是世界上最不幸的孩子,腿残牙突寡言孤僻。春天,父亲让孩子们每人载一棵树苗,并许诺:谁栽的树苗最好,就给谁买一份最喜欢的礼物。当兄妹们蹦跳提水浇树时,男孩却萌生一种阴冷的想法:希望自己栽的那棵树早点死去。因此浇过一两次以后,他就再也没去“搭理”它。几天后,男孩惊奇的发现树不仅没有枯萎,而且长出了几片新叶子,与兄妹们中的树相比,显得更嫩绿、更有生气。父亲兑现了他的诺 I remember a friend said: self-confidence is given to others. The speaker was determined, the listener had no intention, and later saw an article, only realized: a young boy almost considered himself the most unfortunate child in the world, his legs and teeth were isolated. In the spring, my father asked the children to carry a sapling per person and promised: whoever planted the sapling was the best and who to buy a favorite gift. When the siblings bouncing water, the boy sprouted a cold idea: I hope I planted the tree died earlier. Therefore, after pouring once or twice, he never went “take care” of it. A few days later, the boy was surprised to find that the tree not only did not wilt, but also grew a few new leaves, which looked greener and more lively than the siblings. Father honored his promise