如果你问不同的人什么是幸福,得到的答案也不一样。有的人认为生活富裕就是幸福,有的人认为身心愉悦是幸福,还有的人认为实现理想才是幸福。《2011中国人幸福感大调查》显示,有四成人感到不幸福,其中影响幸福感的因素排名前三位的是工资、房价和医保水平。幸福感难道真的如调查所示完全受社会环境的影响吗?事实上,觉得幸福难以获得,常常是因为走入了幸福的误区。我的一个好朋友,前段时间因为既要读书又要照看家庭而疲于奔波、情绪低落。一个晚上,她突发奇想向自己四岁的女儿请教保持快乐的秘诀。这个小姑娘在确认了妈妈真的是想请教自己,而不是在考她时,对妈妈说:你要知道你是很快乐的,你要知道你很聪明,你 If you ask different people what is happiness, the answer is not the same. Some people think that living well is happiness, while others think happiness is happiness, while others think happiness is the realization of ideals. “2011 Chinese happiness survey” shows that 40% of adults feel unhappy, of which the top three factors affecting happiness are wages, house prices and health insurance levels. Is happiness really affected by the social environment completely as the survey shows? In fact, happiness is often difficult to obtain, often because of the misunderstanding of happiness. A good friend of mine, some time ago because of the need to study but also to take care of the family and tired, low mood. One night, she whimsically asked her four-year-old daughter for the secret of being happy. The little girl confirmed her mother is really want to ask yourself, not when she was examining her, said to her mother: you have to know that you are very happy, you have to know you are very smart, you