哲人说过,人生十之八九不如意。细想这话,还真对。拿我们中年人来说,个人的晋升、评职、涨薪;儿女的上学、就业、婚姻;老人及配偶的健康、脾性,等等,你有几样是满意的呢?不满意便烦,便抱怨,叹息,郁郁寡欢,整日里被一个愁字压得弯腰驼背。但仔细琢磨,这些不如意大部分又好像是自找的。你不如意的事,在别人看来小事一桩,实在不值。别人不如意的事,在你看来也平平常常,不该小题大做——原来人习惯会给自己找不痛快。 Philosopher said life is unhappy nine out of ten. If you think about it, it’s true. Take our middle-aged people, personal promotion, appraisal, salary increase; children’s school, employment, marriage; elderly and spouse health, temperament, and so on, how many are you satisfied? , They complain, sigh, unhappy, depressed all day long by a sad word hunched over. But think carefully, most of these unpleasant things seem to be self-seeking. You do not like the things that seem trivial to others, it is not worth it. The unpleasantness of others, in your opinion is also commonplace, should not make a fuss - the original people are used to find themselves not happy.