我们伤心时,有时会哭,有时却忍住不哭。社会上大多数的男人在人前都不会轻易掉眼泪。不管怎么说,“男儿有泪不轻弹”的观念在很多人的心中已是根深蒂固了,如果一个男人掉眼泪,那他就是个懦夫。很多女人,就包括我在内,也存在这样的想法。为了显得坚强,我总忍住眼泪,绝不哭泣,然 When we are sad, we sometimes cry, and sometimes we stop crying. Most men in society will not easily tear their eyes before people. In any case, the concept that “the man does not cry with tears” is deeply ingrained in many people’s minds. If a man sheds tears, he is a coward. Many women, including me, have such ideas. In order to be strong, I always hold back my tears and never cry.