一般而言,人们都希望自己所说的话能有人听,这能给人极大的心理上的满足。有人说:“会说,显示的是你的能力;会听,显示的是你的修养。”这有一定的道理,但在人际交往中,会听,不仅仅是显示修养而已,还显示出听者对信息传递者的接纳、承认和喜欢。信息传递者,也会对听者产生同样 In general, people want to hear what they say. This can give people great psychological satisfaction. Someone said: “You will say that what you have shown is your ability; what you listen to is what you have learned.” There is a certain truth in this, but in interpersonal communication, it will listen, not only to display self-cultivation, but also The listener’s acceptance, recognition, and like of the messenger are shown. The messenger also produces the same for the listener