每个孩子来到这个世界都是一样的,他们光着身子、哇哇大哭、不会说话、不会写字。可长大后,他们有的成了管理者、科学家,有的却成了民工、流浪汉。这和孩子的智商没有直接关系,也不仅仅取决于孩子的家境,后天的受教育环境很大程度上决定了孩子未来的人生走向。英国教育思想家洛克很早就指出家庭教育的重要性,他说:“家教的错误和配错了药一样,第一次弄错了,不能指望用第二次和第三次去补救,它们的影响是终生清洗不掉的。”这种说法似乎有一点夸张,但是家长在教育孩子的过程中,确实有必要学习一些儿童心理常识、一些育儿的窍门,避免犯不必要的错误,伴 Every child comes to this world are the same, they naked, cry, can not speak, can not write. When they grow up, some of them have become managers and scientists, while others have become migrant workers and tramps. This is not directly related to the child’s IQ, nor does it depend solely on the child’s family environment. The acquired educational environment largely determines the child’s future life direction. Locke, a British educational thinker, pointed out the importance of family education very early. He said: “Tutoring mistakes, like wrong medicine, were mistaken for the first time and could not be expected to be remedied by the second and third attempts The effect is life-long cleaning can not afford. ”This argument seems a bit exaggerated, but parents in the process of educating their children, it is indeed necessary to learn some children’s psychological common sense, some parenting tips to avoid unnecessary mistakes,