让别人保住面子,这是一条极其重要的社交原则,而我们却很少意识到这一点。在人际交往过程中,我们有时会将所谓的“权威”建立在伤害他人的基础上,而我们却往往对此毫不知情。长辈当众呵斥小孩、上级在众目睽睽下质问下属的举动在我们身边并不难举例,其实,在面对他人的失误或者过错的时候,不妨冷静地思考一两分钟,然后换一种态度解决问题,那么事情的 It is an extremely important social principle to keep others faceless, and we seldom realize it. In interpersonal communication, we sometimes build what we call the “authority” on the basis of hurting others, and we often do not know it. Elders scolding children in public, superiors under the watchful eyes of subordinates move around us is not difficult to give an example, in fact, in the face of mistakes or mistakes of others, may wish to calmly think about a minute or two, and then change attitude to solve the problem, So what’s up