年龄增长,前几年,有时还厚着脸皮,混在年轻人中,但渐近四十,“中年”这个词,出现在脑子里的时候越来越多,心态也稍稍地起了变化,或者说,渐渐地有了对于中年的恐惧。叶灵凤在《毛姆等到了这一天》一文中,说毛姆“他在七十生日时,曾说自己的心情好像一个‘整装待发’的旅客一样,什么都准备好了,只要一接到通知,随时就要起程”。中年,离“整装待发”还有些时候,但是生命行进过半,如俞平伯所言“当遥指青山是我们的归路,不免 Ages, a few years ago, sometimes cheeky, mixed with young people, but asymptotic forty, ”middle age “ the word appears in my mind more and more, mentality also changed slightly Or, gradually, there is fear of middle age. In his article ”Maugham waited till this day,“ Ye Lingfeng said Maugham ”He had said on his seventieth birthday that he felt as if he was a ready-to-go traveler. Everything was ready, as long as a notice was received , At any time will have to leave “. Middle-aged, from ”ready to go “ There are some times, but life is more than half, as Yu Pingbo said ”When the distance is our home, inevitably