不要在意别人的牌,只管打好自己手中的牌。人生有时就如牌局,关注别人越多,也许自己越失望。请允许我讲述一个故事来证明最坏的情形也能产生最好的结局。一个年轻人正在和其他六个朋友玩牌。当时这个年轻人并没有很多钱,但他无论如何想继续玩下去,因此把自己四分之一的钱押到这一局的 Do not care about other people’s cards, just play cards in your own hands. Sometimes life is like a game. The more people you care about, the more disappointed you may be. Allow me to tell a story to prove that the worst case can produce the best outcome. A young man is playing cards with six other friends. At the time, the young man did not have a lot of money, but he wanted to continue to play anyway, so he took a quarter of his money to this game.