这几年,不管在我的写作内容里还是在不同场合分享生活经验时,我都喜欢提到“态度”这个词。其实它是有缘由的。在我几十年的生命历程中,有过两次和它有关的“刻骨铭心”的往事,因而促使我能够深刻地去体会它。第一次是我刚上大学时。记得那天我在台北的街头等公交车去上学,站在我身旁的是一位金发碧眼的年轻男老外,估计是来我们学校学中文的。等车的时间有点儿长,这位老外可能是为了打发时间,转头问我读的是 In recent years, I always like to mention “attitude” in my writing or in sharing life experiences on different occasions. In fact, it is a reason. During my decades of life there have been two “memorable” events related to it, prompting me to understand it profoundly. The first time I was in college. I remember that day I went to school in the streets of Taipei bus, standing next to me is a blond young male foreigner, it is estimated that our school to learn Chinese. Wait a little longer time for the car, the foreigner may be to pass the time, turned to ask what I read