以慢制胜———论辩中的缓兵之计□宗涧在日常生活中，我们可以见到如下情况：当消防队接到求救电话时，常会用慢条斯理的口气来回答，这种和缓的语气，是为了稳定说话者的情绪，以便对方能正确地说明情况。又如，两口子争吵，一方气急败坏，一方不焦不躁，结果后者反而占... Slow win - the moderator of defense debate Zong Jian In daily life, we can see the following: When the fire department received a call for help, often with a gentle tone to answer, this gentle tone, in order to Stabilize the speaker’s mood so that the other person can correctly explain the situation. Another example, the quarrel between the two, one side angrily, the other side is not anxious, the latter results instead account for ...