我认识张惠雯是在大约十年前,奇特的是,对于这个后来的密友,我的初始印象并不好。那还是大学的时候,在一次留学生聚会上我见到了她。在一群亲热交谈的人中,她显得不太合群。当大家聚餐的时候,她说的话总是显得有些不现实、有些疏离,而且喜欢唱反调。所以她留给我的最初印象竟然是:孤僻、不容易接近。 My understanding of Zhang Huimin was about ten years ago. It was peculiar that my initial impression was not good for this later close friend. When I was in college, I met her at an overseas student gathering. Among a group of intimate conversations she does not seem too cluttered. When we are having dinner, what she says always seems unrealistic, somewhat alienated, and she likes to sing anti-tune. So the first impression she left me was: withdrawn and inaccessible.