两个儿子，大的今年15岁，小的8岁了。都是自小跟着爷爷奶奶长大的，直到去年才接回到我们身边来。我方发现：小哥儿俩性格中都存在着“输不起”的毛病。老大和老二的“输不起”表现得又各自不同。老大遇到困难往往是畏难而退，放弃拼搏，竞争意识淡漠。老二则是争强好胜，总是只能 Two sons, big this year 15 years old, small 8 years old. All grew up with my grandparents and grew up until last year to take back to us. We found that: there is the character of the little brother, both of them can not afford to lose. Boss and sophomore “can not afford to ” behave differently and their different. Boss is often difficult to face difficulties, give up hard work, sense of indifferent competition. The second child is victorious, always only