对一个社会人而言,特别是一个男性,以个人能力和个人素养为基石,以家庭和事业为上层建筑共同构成了他的生命大厦;然而,对于一个优秀的男性来说,在以这四条为出发点的前提下,还有着更高层次的要求:在性格方面,要做到稳重而不乏幽默,健谈而不失成熟;在个人品质方面,有责任感、上进心、涵养、风度;在个人能力上,讲求上得朝堂、下得厨房等。 For a social person, especially a man, based on personal abilities and personal qualities, and his family and career as superstructures together constitute his life building; however, for a good man, with these four As a starting point, there is a higher level of requirements: in terms of character, to be steady and no lack of humor, talkative yet mature; in the personal quality, there is a sense of responsibility, ambition, conservation, demeanor; personal ability On the emphasis on the Chaotang, under the kitchen and so on.