做父母多认为,自己所作所为还不全都是为了子女好。问题是,即使你的“话”百分之百正确,你也不能因此剥夺孩子自己选择作决定的学习机会。许多父母认为,孩子还小,由着他们自己选择作决定,还不乱套。而日常生活中不过都是一些细细碎碎琐事,处理“得当”最好,“不当”也难免,很难说跟孩子将来“长成什么个性”有什么必然联系。的确,表面看起来,孩子从出生到长大成人,每个父 Parents think more, what they do not all are good for their children. The problem is that even if your words are 100% correct, you should not deprive your child of the learning opportunities they choose to make decisions. Many parents think that children are still young, and they decide to make choices based on their own choices. In daily life, however, there are only a few fine and delicate things. It is hard to deal with “proper” and “improper”, and it is hard to say what kind of connection it is with the child’s future development. Indeed, the surface looks like children from birth to grown-up, each parent