不要轻易地言爱,也不要轻易地言恨,这便是人们经常说的无爱、无忧、无怨、无悔的美好人生。 真爱不需要承诺,而是在经受时间考验之后仍能心照不宣,心心相印的情感共鸣。即使双方一见钟情,在彼此内心激起一种欢愉乃至振荡心灵的感受,也不要轻易言爱。有一位正沐浴在爱中的女孩坦率地告诉我:我不了解他,但我相信这是一种“缘”。原来她所说的“缘”就是那个男孩的一封热情洋溢的求爱信。这种有“缘”但未必有“份”的爱可靠吗?一般人初次见面都是竭力将美好的一面呈现给对方并试图给对方留下好的印象,人们也常倾向于看到对方的独特之处,于是相互产生交往的欲望。一些缺乏社会阅历又处在青春期的年轻人,更容易萌发类似“一见钟情”式的 Do not say love easily, do not easily hate, this is what people often say no love, no worries, no complaint, no regret of a better life. True love does not require promises, but it can still tacitly and emotionally resonate after being subjected to the test of time. Even if both love at first sight, in each other’s heart to provoke a happy or even soul-stirring feelings, do not talk too much love. There is a girl bathed in love to tell me frankly: I do not know him, but I believe this is a kind of “edge.” Originally she said the “edge” is that boy a passionate love letter. This kind of “edge” but not necessarily “share” reliable? Most ordinary people are trying hard to bring the good side to each other and trying to give each other a good impression, people often tend to see each other’s unique Place, so mutual desire to generate contacts. Some young people lack social experience and adolescence, more likely to germinate like “love at first sight” style