陈先生: 我今年30岁,妻子是我的同学。我们有一个一岁半的小女孩,我俩都很爱她,可随着孩子的出生,危机也跟随而至了。我妻子在生产时,做了会阴侧切除术。过了八九天,该拆药线时,我妻子让我帮着拆一下,剪一下就行。我在拆线时,发现伤口略微感染,那触目的一刹那,给我留下了极深的印象,可以说,那条伤痕和那弯曲的伤口深深地刺激着我,留下了隐患(尽管感染的伤口几天就痊愈了)。本来,从怀孕到分娩到哺乳期,为了孩子和大人的身体,我们坚持不过性生活,精力全放在孩子身上。孩子降临人世,就更忙了,也无暇顾及。可过了多半年,我发现我对性生活冷淡了许多,原因是我不能想,一想,脑海中马上就会出现那条伤痕和脓口,心中不但没有激情,反而很恶心。又不能和妻子说明,劝自己,过一阵子就好了。平心而论,以前,我们之间的性生活一直很好,很美满幸福。我们彼此感情也很深厚。虽然也有过吵吵 Mr. Chen: I am 30 years old and my wife is my classmate. We have a little girl, one and a half years old. Both of us love her very much. But as the children are born, crises follow. My wife did a perineal resection at the time of production. After eight or nine days, the demolition line, my wife let me help the demolition look, cut it on the line. When I was stitching, I found that the wound was slightly infected, and the moment I touched it left a deep impression on me. It can be said that the scar and the curved wound deeply stimulated me and left a hidden danger (though Infected wounds healed in a few days). Originally, from pregnancy to childbirth to lactation, in order to children and adults of the body, we insisted that sexual life, all the energy on the child. When a child is born, he is even more busy and has no time to take it into consideration. After more than six months, I found that I had a lot of frigidity on sex because I could not think about it. My scar and pus would appear in my mind. Not only was there no passion in the heart but it was disgusting. Can not explain with his wife, advise yourself, after a while just fine. To be fair, in the past, the sexual life between us has been very good, very happy. We are very deep feelings with each other. Although there are also noisy