在我多年的心理咨询经历中,我发现,果敢训练,对许多年轻人是非常必要的,这些年轻人,表现得很“乖”,很“听话”,他们很难坚持自己的观点。不坚持自己的主张缺乏果断精神与“当众宣言”的焦虑或怕惹别人不高兴有关,这些人一遭到需要沉着、自信和自我肯定的场合,就要遭受极大的痛 During my many years of psychological counseling, I found that courageous training is necessary for many young people who behave “obediently” and are “obedient.” They find it hard to stick to their point of view. Not insisting on the lack of decisiveness of one’s own assertions is related to the anxiety of the “public manifesto” or the unpleasingness of others. When these people are in need of calmness, self-confidence and self-affirmation, they will suffer greatly