“应该多鼓励孩子!”“应该经常表扬学生!”……在我们日常教育话语中,像这样含有“应该”的语句很多。然而,直接和孩子们接触的家长、教师都深知,在和他们的实际交往中,在积极的鼓励行为意识之外,批评甚至惩罚,都是常有的事。那么,批评对孩子们意味着什么呢?他们是 “Children should be encouraged more! ” “Students should be praised frequently! ” ... In our daily educational discourse, there are many sentences that contain “should ” in this way. However, parents and teachers who are in direct contact with their children are well aware that it is not uncommon for them to criticize and even punish students for their active interactions with them and their positive awareness of encouragement. So what does criticism mean to children? They are