作为老师,我常对学生进行家访,而在家访中我常听到家长这样的话——“孩子不怕我。”“不怕我”本该是好事,它体现了孩子与家长之间民主平等的关系,有利于孩子独立性格的形成。可是,一些家长所说的“孩子不怕我”却是饱含了家教中的“无奈”。意思是孩 As a teacher, I often make home visits to students, and I frequently hear from parents at home visits - “Children are not afraid of me.” “Not afraid of me” is supposed to be a good thing. It reflects the democratic and equal relationship between children and parents , Is conducive to the formation of children's independent personality. However, what some parents call “children are not afraid of me” is full of helplessness in tutor. Means children