20世纪90年代初,中国开始全面进入独子时代,大部分家长在早期的放纵宠爱、痛定思痛之后,后期改变策略,加紧对独子的全面控制,致使孩子的生活自由度大大减少,紧缩了生活,便相应紧缩了他们的思想与个性。饱涨的学校教育和封闭的家庭生活,使独子们不再是从前受宠的“皇帝”,而成了 In the early 1990s, China began to fully enter the era of an only son. Most parents in the early stages of indulging in petting and paining, and later changed their strategies, stepped up full control of the only child, resulting in a significant reduction in the freedom of life of the child and tightening life. Their ideas and personality were tightened accordingly. Full-fledged school education and closed family life, so that the only sons are no longer the “imperials” who had been favored, have become