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世上没有不争吵的夫妻。争吵虽然会给夫妻双方带来不快甚至是痛苦,但是也有利于消除或缓和家庭生活的紧张和压力。那么,如何使争吵成为夫妻生活中表达意见、交流思想的一种途径,而又不致造成感情恶化呢?笔者认为,夫妻双方可以掌握以下几条原则。一忌借题发挥夫妻争吵有时并不是因两人间的感情问题而引起的,因此争论时要就事论事,围绕特定的主题。不要“扩大化”,牵扯进所有的事情。更不要轻易提及“离婚”两字。否则,往往会带来“狂风暴雨”,并在记忆中留下难以忘却的“创伤”,这对双方都是不利的。二忌攻击弱点每个人都有脆弱的地方,你的配
There are no unhappy couples in the world. Quarrel, although unpleasant and even painful to both spouses, can also help to eliminate or ease the strain and pressure on family life. So, how to make quarrels become a way of life in the expression of opinion, exchange of ideas, without causing feelings of deterioration? The author believes that the couple can grasp the following principles. A bogey borrowed to play husband and wife quarrel sometimes is not caused by the emotional problems between the two, so when the debate on the matter, around a particular theme. Do not “enlarge”, involve everything. Not to mention the word “divorce” easily. Otherwise, it will often bring “stormy” and leave an unforgettable “trauma” in memory, which is detrimental to both sides. Two bogey attack vulnerability Everyone has a fragile place, your match