在儿童心理咨询门诊，经常可以听到一些家长抱怨说“我 女儿还不到３岁，特别不省事，爱扔东西，爱打人，你越是不让她动的东西她偏要动；真是气人！”；“我儿子刚２岁就特别任性，不听大人话，到商店要这要那，不给买就又哭又闹；躺在地上撒泼．打滚，不抱起来哄他就没个完， In the Children’s Psychological Counseling Clinic, you can often hear some parents complain that “My daughter is under 3 years old, so I do not need to worry about anything. I love to throw things and love to beat people. Angry man! ”;" My son just 2 years old is particularly capricious, do not listen to adults, to the store to do that, do not buy to cry and noisy; lying on the ground sparring. Roll, do not pick up and coax him A finished