“小姐”一词是当代汉语语言生活中一个极为常见的称呼语,但近年来,由于种种原因,“小姐”却陷入了困境,它的使用似乎存在着一褒一贬两极分化的趋势。为了拨开笼罩在人们头上的迷雾,扩大“小姐”的使用范围,帮助“小姐”进入平常百姓的生活,我们建议加强媒体语言监管和有关称呼语的教育。 “Miss” is an extremely common appellation in contemporary Chinese language life. However, due to various reasons, “Miss” is in a dilemma. It seems that there exists a commentary, the trend of. In order to get rid of the fog enveloped in people’s heads, expand the scope of use of “Miss” and help “Miss” enter the life of ordinary people, we propose to strengthen media language supervision and the education of appellations.