礼尚往来历来是国人的传统,谁家有个大事小事,都会期望有人捧场。而东家往往也会备几桌酒菜,请所有来宾热闹热闹。如果哪家的酒席置备了而没有人来吃,主人非但不会为省下酒席钱而高兴,反而觉得在左乡右邻间失了人缘,丢了脸面。而且,谁家有事,大家也会集点份子,在道义上帮一把,这既是互相帮助的一种表现,也体现了厚重的人情味。可以说,人情原本就是道德情感上的互换。 Sincerity and reciprocity has always been the tradition of the people, who has a major event, will expect someone to join. While the owner often prepare a few table dishes, please all guests lively. If any one of the banquets is provided and no one comes to eat, the owner not only will not be happy to save the banquet money, but instead feels lost in popularity and left his face in the neighborhood of his hometown. Moreover, when someone is in trouble, everyone will gather points and morally help one, which is both a manifestation of mutual assistance and a manifestation of heavy human touch. It can be said that human nature is originally a moral and emotional exchange.