人与人之间的关系很怪,有的表面看起来很牢固,其实骨子里却脆弱得很。别看平时“铁哥们”、“好姐们”的叫个不停,也许一件很小很小的事,就能把这种关系给毁喽！就人际关系范围来说,“小河沟里翻船”比“大风雨中沉没”更常见,因此也就更带有不可预测性。 在社会生活中,人们往往会格外注意“大处”,而忽略“小处”。只要大处说得过去,小处随便点也无所谓。有的人甚至把此视为一种潇洒与超脱。殊不知,人际关 The relationship between people is weird, and some look very solid, but in reality they are very fragile. Do not look at the usual “buddies”, “good sisters,” called a non-stop, perhaps a very small thing, we can destroy this relationship myself! In the context of interpersonal relationships, “capsizing in a small river ditch” is more common than “sunk in a storm” and therefore more unpredictable. In social life, people tend to pay special attention to “big things” while ignoring “little things.” As long as the big place is justified, the small place does not matter point. Some people even think of it as a carefree and detached. As everyone knows, interpersonal