恰到好处是人际交往中理智上表现出来的“度”。是你在拥有许多待人处世的优良品质的基础上，恰如其分地、驾轻就熟地把握其“度”的变化。你的热度太高了会灼伤人；你的热度太低了则会冷漠人。该加温而没有加温会使你的人际关系发生“断路”；该降温而加温会悖离意愿。 不过 Just right is the “degree” shown intellectually in interpersonal communication. It is precisely because you have many good people who treat others on the basis of quality, appropriately, grasping to grasp the “degree” of change. Your heat is too high will burn people; your heat is too low will be indifferent people. The warming without warming will make your interpersonal relationship “broken”; the cooling and warming will be contrary to the will. However,