蕗隐:我的男友比我大十岁,我很欣赏他的为人,感觉我们并没有什么代沟。但是父母、同学和朋友都不赞成。我也很矛盾。他现在30多岁了,这意味着我们很快就会结婚,而我并不想太早结婚生子。因为我是有职业的现代女性。朋友的思虑也不是没有理由。毕竟我们相差十岁,如果他要想欺骗我的感情并不难,而且我发现他对我很小心翼翼,有时我觉得他深不可测,一副老谋深算的样子,所以我也有点儿怕,有些担心!和他在一起的时候很快乐,但一个人冷静的时候我又不得不 Implicit: My boyfriend is ten years older than me, I really admire his man, I feel we have no generation gap. But parents, classmates and friends do not agree. I am also very contradictory. He is in his 30s, which means we get married soon, and I do not want to marry too early. Because I am a professional modern woman. Friend’s thinking is not without reason. After all, we are ten years old, and if he wants to deceive my feelings it’s not hard, and I find him very cautious to me, sometimes I think he is unfathomable, a wily look, so I am a bit scared, some worried Very happy when I was with him, but I had to be cool when one was cool