一位大学同学,结婚多年,没有子女,收养了一个孩子。孩子长大后,亲生父母却开始不断托人打听情况,意欲上门认亲。同学夫妇心里特别难受,她不想让孩子现在就知道自己的身世,也不想让家庭失去往日的平静与温馨。我们能理解他们 A college student, married for many years, has no children, adopted a child. When a child grows up, his or her biological parents start to keep asking people for information, and they want to identify with their relatives. The couple’s heart is particularly uncomfortable, she did not want children to know their own personal experience now, do not want the family to lose the calm and warmth of the past. We can understand them