我的学生小川刚参加工作不久,就忧心忡忡地对我说:“老师,我对自己的前途感到非常迷茫,不知该怎么办。在单位,我没经验、没背景,没人重视,也没有贵人相助,可以说是一无所有。我经常有一种如履薄冰的感觉,生怕一不小心就在职场上摔一跤,很难再起来。”像小川这种心理恐怕很多人都有过,看到身边的人都比自己有优越条件——有的有良好的 Not long after my student Ogawa joined the work, he said sadly to me: “Teacher, I feel very confused about my future, I do not know what to do. In the unit, I have no experience, no background, no attention, nor I am afraid there is often a sense of walking on the ice, for fear of accidentally wrestling in the workplace, it is difficult to get up again. ”Like Ogawa, I am afraid many people have had such a look around Have better conditions than themselves - some are good