五月里的一天傍晚,我们接到一位家长读者的电话。那是一位初三孩子的父亲,他的儿子学习成绩原本非常优秀,但自从初二暑假里迷恋上网络游戏后,便开始走下坡路。从少做作业、不做作业开始,直至逃学,乃至在网吧里彻夜不归。他给我们打这个电话的时候,他的儿子已经三天没有回家了,他找不到他,不知他在哪家网吧里。眼看中考在即,可孩子依然故我,沉溺在网络游戏中。这位父亲的声音里充满了焦虑和不安。第二天早晨,我们刚刚上班,这位父亲又打来了电话,他的孩子又是一夜未归。他万般无奈。我们在工作中接到过很多这样的电话,沉迷网络游戏的孩子各有不同的原因,但很多孩子都因此而放弃课业,学习成绩滑坡,甚至逃学,走上犯罪道路。网络像一把双刃剑,它给予孩子的不光是智慧,还有另一面——魔鬼般的陷阱。这一期,我们请来心理学家和中学教师,请他们谈谈孩子为什么会迷恋网络游戏,孩子迷恋网络游戏家长又该怎么办,如何让孩子在网络环境下健康成长。他们的意见与建议,想必能够给予家长朋友一些帮助与启迪。 One evening in May, we received a call from a parent reader. It was the father of a third-trium child. His son had a very good academic record, but he started to decline after he became obsessed with online games during the first two days of summer. From doing less homework, not homework, until truancy, and even overnight in the Internet cafe does not return. When he called us, his son had not returned home in three days. He could not find him and did not know where he was at the Internet cafe. Seeing the test soon, but the child is still so I indulge in online games. The father’s voice is full of anxiety and anxiety. The next morning, we just went to work, and the father called again. His children did not return overnight. He is helpless. We have received many such calls during our work. Children who are addicted to online games have different reasons. However, many children have given up their studies because of this, and their academic performance has been declining. They even fled their schools and went on to commit crimes. The Internet is like a double-edged sword, which gives children not only wisdom, but also the other side - the devil’s trap. During this period, we invited psychologists and middle school teachers to ask them why they are infatuated with online games. Children are infatuated with what online game parents should do and how to make their children grow healthily in online environments. Their opinions and suggestions must have given parents some help and inspiration.