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1994年8月,我的一对龙凤胎出生。我因当中学教师的经历,想到这么可爱的孩子,慢慢到了初中、高中,生活在应试教育大环境里,做不完的作业,睡眠不足,眼睛无神,即使考试成绩很好,算得上成功吗?我觉得如果家庭教育跟不上,孩子便逃不出这个怪圈。该做些什么?我想到了自立教育,具体为自立人格、自主学习、自律生活。这是我对家庭教育的朦胧认识,主要的思想是孩子的成长不能被大人牢牢地控制,应该有主动权。
In August 1994, a pair of my twins were born. When I was a middle school teacher, I thought of such a lovely child and slowly went to junior middle school and high school. I lived in an environment of examination-oriented education, and did an endless job, lacking in sleep and eyes, Success? I think if family education can not keep up, children will not escape this cycle. What to do? I think of self-reliance education, specifically for self-reliance, self-study and self-discipline. This is my faint understanding of family education. The main idea is that children’s development can not be firmly controlled by adults and should have the initiative.