我的一位师兄，正处不惑之年。可他困惑的事情太多太多。特别当别人问他：现在是科长还是主任啦?他会觉得尴尬无比，甚至痛苦万分。这友好关心的问候，往往激起他内心强烈的失落感，令他痛楚、沮丧。因为他现在还只是一名普普通通的干部。凭心而论，师兄是那种有事业心、有追求 One of my brothers, is not at the age of confusion. But he’s puzzled too much. Especially when others ask him: is now the chief or director now? He would feel very embarrassed, and even extremely painful. This friendly and carefree greetings often aroused a strong sense of loss in his heart, causing him pain and frustration. Because he is still just an ordinary cadre. In fairness, the kind of brother is a caricature, there is the pursuit