每个女人都有自己的娘家,母亲的娘家在千里之外的河南许昌。那是1942年,河南遭遇史上有名的大饥荒,遍地焦黄,成千上万的人携儿带女走上了逃荒路,有人不得已,就将儿女卖掉让逃条活命。那年正月的一天,饿得头昏眼花的母亲被外婆领到镇上一户人家,那家的女人给她手里塞了一个黑面窝头,她狼吞虎咽地啃起来。外婆从那家男人的手中接过几块银圆眼泪婆娑走出了屋门,母亲望着外婆冰冷的背影“哇”地哭出了声,因为她似乎意识到外 Each woman has her own home, her mother’s family thousands of miles away in Henan Xuchang. It was 1942 when Henan suffered a famine in the history of the famine and was overcast everywhere. Tens of thousands of people took their children onto the deserted road, with some being forced to sell their children for escape. One day in the first lunar month of that year, the hungry dizzy mother was led by her grandmother to a household in the town. The woman in her house was stuffed in her hand with a nibble, and she gnawed grumbling. Grandmother took a few silver circles from the man’s hands and took a few tears out of the house. Her mother looked at the cold back of her grandmother crying “wow” because she seemed to realize