中国父母在孩子心目中的地位微乎其微,这不能不说是为人父母的悲哀。之所以造成这种局面,自然有父母长辈教育的失当,许多家长让孩子去实现自己的人生夙愿,把“圆梦”和“光宗耀祖”的任务交给孩子。只管他们的学习,其他一切不管不问。作为一名教育工作者,我们也在反思自己的教育行为。多年来,我们重知识的传授、轻情感的陶冶;重分数的高低、轻做人的培育,都是造成人们思想道德严重滑坡的主要原因,这也是课程改革所亟待解决的问题。因此,在大力弘扬民族精神、提倡精神文明的今天,让孩子怀有孝心,百善孝为先,秉承中华传统文化,是学校、家庭、社会和时代共同的需求。 Chinese parents in the eyes of children's status is minimal, which can not be said to be a parent's sadness. The reason why such a situation naturally leads to the misplaced education of parents and elders. Many parents let their children realize their own aspirations for life and give their children the task of “dreams” and “patriarchs”. Regardless of their learning, everything else goes without saying. As an educator, we also reflect on our own educational behavior. Over the years, we have emphasized the imparting of knowledge and cultivating light feeling; the emphasis of re-division and the cultivation of light-minded people are all the major causes of the serious decline of people's morality. This is also a problem to be solved urgently in curriculum reform. Therefore, vigorously promoting the national spirit and promoting spiritual civilization today, children filial piety, filial piety for the first, adhering to the Chinese traditional culture, is the common needs of schools, families, society and the times.