曾几何时,“同居”这个词在很多人眼里带有一种贬义的含义,尤其在老年人眼里,它一直作为有违于传统道德的生活方式而受到谴责和鄙视。如今,随着社会老龄化进程的加快,许多丧偶或离异老人竟也纷纷选择同居、试婚的生活方式。然而,在老人同居、试婚数量增加的背后,有着比年轻人更多的“难言之隐” Once upon a time, the term cohabitation has a pejorative meaning in the eyes of many, especially in the eyes of the elderly, which has been repudiated and contemptuous as a way of life contrary to traditional morality. Today, as the process of social aging accelerates, many widowed or divorced elders actually choose to live together in a cohabitation and trial manner. However, behind the increase in the number of elderly people living together and trial marriage, there are more “unspeakable secrets” than younger people