给你说了多少遍,为什么你偏偏不听呢?这么简单的道理,为什么你就不明白呢?当孩子“屡教不改”时,父母忍不住咆哮道。为什么跟小孩儿讲道理他不听呢?民间有一句歇后语说得好:秀才遇到兵,有理说不清。意思是说,讲道理要分清对象,否则你讲得口干舌燥,也不起丝毫的作用。教育孩子也是如此,面对不同年龄阶段的孩子,你需要采取不同的方法。 How many times did you say it to you, why did not you listen to it? So simple reason, why do not you understand? When the child “does not change ”, the parent can not help growling. Why do you tell children that he does not listen? There is a saying in the private room: scholar encounter soldiers, reasonably unclear. The meaning is that reasoning should distinguish between the object, or you speak dry mouth, nor play the slightest role. The same is true for educating children, and you need to take a different approach to children of different ages.