如果说婚姻是一条河,那么男女便是河之源头的两道泉,在它们的交汇处,必然要有些动人的音符——在理智升华中的种种许诺。 然而浅薄、迷情式的许诺必然留下长久的心理隐患。这可分为以下几种; 一、讨好式的许诺。男女相爱,总有一方相对表现得更为主动,以“追”的姿态出现,于是难免会有些动人的许诺。如女方讲:“有 If marriage is a river, then men and women are the two fountains at the source of the river. At their junctions, there must be some moving notes - the promises of rational sublimation. However, shallow, flirtatious promises will inevitably leave long-term psychological problems. This can be divided into the following categories; First, pleasing the promise. In love with men and women, there is always one party that performs more relatively and appears in a “chase” attitude, so it is inevitable that there will be some touching promises. As the woman said: "Yes