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你为什么会爱上这个人?你找的伴侣,为什么跟你的异性父母相似或相反?你恋爱几十次,为什么总找一种类型?你温柔贤惠,为什么你的爱却会伤人?当情人把你看成一个女神,对你痴心付出;当妻子因为照顾你而废寝忘食、置自己于不顾;当母亲把你捧在手心里疼惜,恨不得片刻不离……你是不是会因为他们的爱而感动?可是心理专家武志红却说,这样的爱是会伤人的。在2012年12月出版的新书《为何爱会伤人》里,武志红描述了
Why do you fall in love with this person? Why do you find your partner, or similar to your opposite sex parents? Do you love dozens of times, why always find a type? You gentle and virtuous, why your love will hurt? Lover treats you as a goddess, to you silly to pay; when the wife because of taking care of you and sleepless nights, disregarding yourself; when the mother pamper you in the palm of your hand, can not wait for a moment ... you are not because of their love And moved? But psychological expert Wu Zhihong said that such love will hurt people. In December 2012, the new book “Why love will hurt people”, Wu Zhihong described