孔子在《论语·卫灵公》中说:“人无远虑,必有近忧。”意思是说,人如果没有长远的谋划,就会有即将到来的忧患。孔子揭示了一个放之四海而皆准的普遍真理,但因为内涵过于玄妙,经常被后人错误理解。比如,很多家长害怕孩子在未来的竞争中落后,不遗余力地对孩子进行早期开发,把孩子逼得连充足的睡眠都成 Confucius said in the Analects of Confucius Wei Ling: “Without consideration, there must be near worry.” The meaning is that people without long-term planning, there will be an upcoming crisis. Confucius revealed a universally accepted universal truth, but because the connotation is too mysterious, it is often misunderstood by his descendants. For example, many parents fear that their children will fall behind in future competition, sparing no effort in early development of their children, and pushing their children to have adequate sleep