建立良好的父母形象是一个“由内而外”的过程,在谈及父母形象时,我们认为既要重视为人父母的内在素养和心理品质,同时也要兼修外在形象,比如穿着打扮。而事实上,很多家长可能忽视了这一点。有些人认为讲究衣着是恋爱中人的必修课,因为“人为悦己者容”;一旦结婚生子,悦己者是自己人了,“儿不嫌母丑”,在穿着打 Establishing a good parent image is a process from the inside to the outside. When talking about the image of the parent, we think it is important to attach importance to the intrinsic and psychological qualities of the parent while at the same time cultivating the external image, such as dressing up. In fact, many parents may overlook this point. Some people think that dress is a compulsory course for people in love, because “people for the sake of their own capacity”; once married and have their own children, "