大姐比我大差不多二十岁,我记事的时候她早已经出嫁,而且嫁到了很远的江南,所以我童年早期的记忆里没有大姐的影子。但是生活里还是有大姐的消息,我老是听妈妈说大丫头怎么怎么了,而且我们每隔一段时间就能收到大姐寄来的包裹,那里面有茶叶、年糕之类,但是更多的是鞋,全家每人一双。 The older sister is almost twenty years older than me. She was already married when I remembered, and she married a long distance to the south of the Yangtze River. Therefore, there was no shadow of her sister in my early childhood memories. However, there is still news of big sister in my life. I always listen to my mother saying how the big girl is, and we can receive parcels sent by big sisters from time to time. There are tea and rice cakes, but more. It is a pair of shoes for the whole family.