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笔者曾在心理咨询中遇到这样一位女同学:她对我说,她的某同班同学一直在死心踏地地追求她,而她又不喜欢那位追求她的男生,也不想伤害她,不知道该怎么办。这里,我想提出一点我的不成熟的看法,但愿能对我遇到的这类女同学在处理类似问题时有所帮助。(一)关于男生方面,这位女同学要有正确的认识。首先,我得提醒一句,有的男生追求女性纯粹是出于无聊,出于“好玩”,出于本能冲动,并不出于爱情原因,这在大学中不少见。这种男生本能上觉得需要有女朋友,认为有女
I had met such a female student in psychological counseling: She told me that one of her classmates has been pursuing her in earnest, and she did not like the man who pursued her, nor did she want to hurt her. I do not know what to do Here, I would like to make a point of my immature opinion, hoping that this type of female classmate I met would be helpful in dealing with similar issues. (A) Regarding the boys, the female student should have the correct understanding. First of all, I have to remind you that some boys pursue women purely out of boredom out of “fun” and out of instinctive impulses, not out of love, which is not uncommon among universities. This boy instinctively felt the need to have a girlfriend, that there is a woman