前不久听到一个小故事。班里来了一位实习老师,学生们不明白,纷纷向自己的老师打听。老师为了“要挟”那群有时颇让人头疼的学生,就说“:你们这样不听话,我不愿意教你们了!”谁知,一些孩子信以为真,当场就哭起来。还有一些写来了留言条,表示自己愿意听话,希望老师不要调走。此时,老师一下子明白了——自己的做法伤了孩子们的心。 Not long ago I heard a little story. An intern trainee teacher came in class and the students did not get it and inquired one after another to their teacher. Teachers in order to “threaten” those sometimes quite headache students, said “: you are not obedient, I do not want to teach you! ” Who knows, some children believe it, crying on the spot. There are also some wrote a message, that they are willing to obey, I hope the teacher not to transfer away. At this point, the teacher suddenly understand - my own practice hurt the children’s heart.