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问：我不知道怎样讨别人的欢心，我对人一向是冷若冰霜，所以大家给我起了个外号“冰蝶”。请问我该怎样让别人不那样称呼我呢？（彩蝶）答：你不愿意别人这样称呼你，实际上是不愿意接纳自己冷若冰霜的性格，说明你意识到这种个性对交往的不利影响。那么好吧，从现在开始绽放
Q: I don’t know how to discuss other people’s favors. I’ve always been frosty about people, so everyone gave me the nickname “Ice Butterfly.” How can I let others not call me that? (Colorful Butterfly) Answer: You do not want others to call you this way. In fact, they are reluctant to accept their frosty character, indicating that you are aware of the negative influence of this personality on communication. So well, bloom from now